It's fairly simple to find a person that interests you and you can narrow your search for the most compatible date by choosing someone who enjoys similar activities.
But what about attraction and chemistry? How much can you sense about a person through their online profile or by chatting with them online? The single picture portrayed on their dating profile probably isn't representative of how they normally look and without hearing their voice, it can be difficult, if not impossible to get a feel for the person as a whole.
Looks aren't everything when it comes to choosing a date, but there needs to be some level of acceptance. More important than physical attraction, however, is chemistry.
How to find chemistry through online dating:
1. Start by being honest with the information you provide to the online dating service. This is the only information people will have to evaluate you by before making the initial contact.
2. Be open about yourself and what you need from a mate through your conversation with potential dates.
3. Be yourself. Don't act one way online to make yourself more desirable and make your dates find out later that that isn't the real you.
4. Carefully choose the picture you choose to identify yourself on your dating profile. Anything that is too revealing can lead people to think that you are easy. Conversely, a picture that is too formal makes it look like you are a stiff. Choose a picture that is fun and captures something about your personality.
5. Keep your interactions fun and flirty. Remain positive. Avoid bringing up negative topics, heavy subjects and former relationships that went bad. Show that you have a sense of humor.
6. When meeting your online date for the first time you should dress comfortably, do something fun together and keep the vibe fun and flirty. The first date is not the time for hot and heavy behavior, even if you have gotten to know each other through the Internet first.
7. Let your date know you are interested. Complement them, tell them you had a wonderful time or make it unmistakable that you want to see them again.
If chemistry still doesn't present itself between the two of you after a few dates, it's either time for a serious conversation to evaluate what is going on or time to break it off and move on.
Every minute you waste with someone you aren't into is time better spent searching for a perfect match where you do feel the spark. Check out www.qmpeople.com/chat to start your search.
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Source: www.isnare.com
